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“Most women fake orgasm because most men fake foreplay.” Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D. shares 5 things she wishes she knew about sex when she was 30.

“Most women fake orgasm because most men fake foreplay.” Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D. shares 5 things she wishes she knew about sex when she was 30.

Jun 19, 2014 | One Comment

    By thirty, I thought I knew all about sex. I knew that raking my nails down someone’s back was only acceptable in the movies. (Lost that guy). I learned that I had to be focused and open and receptive in […]

10 Things You Need To Know Before You Blindfold Your Partner

May 8, 2014 | No Comments

Last year, the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon lead to an unprecedented rise in the sale of any sex toy that was mentioned in the book. The vast majority of women who got off on Fifty Shades have yet to pitch up […]

Professor Brett Kahr on Sexual Fantasy

Professor Brett Kahr on Sexual Fantasy

Oct 25, 2013 | No Comments

Three years ago psychotherapist Brett Kahr carried out an unprecedented investigation into the sexual fantasies of 19,000 British people. The data was published by Penguin in his book ‘Sex and the Psyche”. In this wonderful extract Kahr answers all the questions about fantasy that […]

Sexual fantasy drives female sexual arousal.

Sexual fantasy drives female sexual arousal.

Oct 25, 2013 | No Comments

It is understandably difficult to get a universal grasp on something as intangible as sexual fantasy, but Katherine L Goldey from the Department of Psychology, University of Michigan and Sari M Anders from the Department of Psychology, Program in Neuroscience, University of […]

Men want sex. Women want commitment. Not.

Men want sex. Women want commitment. Not.

Oct 25, 2013 | No Comments

I recently wrote an article about casual sex and the response to it was anything but casual. Despite contraception, despite equal rights, despite the twenty-first-sodding- century, the hypocritical “he’s a player, she’s a slut” double standard appears to be alive and well, and living in middle […]

FREE EROTICA!!  Christmas warmies courtesy of Rachel Kramer Bussel.

FREE EROTICA!! Christmas warmies courtesy of Rachel Kramer Bussel.

Oct 25, 2013 | No Comments

Rachel Kramer Bussel is a New York-based author, editor, blogger and event organizer. She has written for numerous publications, including Alternative Press, CNN.com, The Daily Beast, The Frisky, Gothamist, The Hairpin, Huffington Post, Inked, Jezebel, Lemondrop, Mediabistro, The Nervous Breakdown, New York […]

Jasmine Peterson is angry that it took her 27 years to learn about polyamory.

Jan 3, 2013 | No Comments

I am going to be candid. I, at the age of 27, only recently discovered myself to be polyamorous. I think I’ve been approaching this realization for a couple of years, but it suddenly leapt out to me with a clarity I’d […]

One benefit of the current recession is the fact that hotels are coming up with innovative ways to monetise their empty rooms and you can now check in for an afternoon rather than paying for a full night

Oct 26, 2012 | No Comments

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Great Books about sex,  compiled by Ian Kerner, author of ‘She Comes First’ and Good in Bed contributor

Great Books about sex, compiled by Ian Kerner, author of ‘She Comes First’ and Good in Bed contributor

Aug 29, 2012 | No Comments

With the blockbuster success of “Fifty Shades of Grey,” many people are curious about dipping their toes (not to mention other body parts) into more sexually adventurous waters. I’m always careful to make clear that while the adventures of Ana and Christian […]